People are gonna try and change you, for them. So if you want to be an artist, creative in any ways, know what you want to say and what’s interesting about you, what separates you from other people. Know what makes you especially different, what is it what your voice brings to the table. Don’t let be persuade by anybody else’s opinion. Your point of view is as essential to creative development of the art as anybody else is.
And then primacy will find you.